Man Donates His Kidney After Receiving Heart-Breaking Note In An ebay Parcel


A person donated a kidney to a stranger after receiving a heartfelt be aware in an eBay parcel.

53-year-old Ray Duffy went beneath the knife two years in the past on the Royal Infirmary of Edinburgh to develop into a dwelling kidney donor.

The thought first got here to him in 2013, when his associate purchased a prime on eBay – which was accompanied by a be aware explaining the heartbreaking predicament confronted by the vendor’s household.

The lady who posted the bundle had wrapped it in paper illustrated with hand-drawn cartoons, and a be aware explaining how her husband wanted a kidney transplant and had misplaced his job so the household would promote issues on-line to generate money.

Dad-of-two Ray was so moved that he stored the be aware – however had no concept how he might assist.

Two years later he was caught in visitors and heard a radio programme discussing dwelling kidney donors, and was impressed to go beneath the knife to save lots of someone’s life – despite the fact that he had by no means met them.

Ray mentioned: ‘Again in 2013, my associate purchased a prime on eBay and it arrived wrapped up in brown wrapping paper which the sender had hand-drawn cartoons of animals throughout.

‘She had also written a thank you note explaining that her husband was on the transplant waiting list, had lost his job and that now and then they would sell things they didn’t want on eBay so they might purchase their youngsters a deal with.

‘She said that she drew the pictures to put a smile on people’s faces as that they had helped her put a smile on her youngsters’s faces.

‘I’ll always remember it.

‘It was just a really nice gesture from a complete stranger and I couldn’t assist feeling a bit queasy – right here we’re within the 21st century and there are households struggling whereas ready for transplants.

‘I felt so helpless.’

The operations supervisor from Gordon, Scottish Borders, recalled how he thought on the time ‘If I could, I would give her husband my kidney’ – however didn’t realize it was doable or authorized.

However whereas listening to the radio within the automobile two years later, he had a ‘lightbulb moment’ when altruistic organ donation was mentioned – the place a dwelling individual anonymously donates an organ to a stranger.

He mentioned: ‘I went to vary the music on the radio and I pressed the improper button and by chance tuned into an interview of a person talking about his expertise donating a kidney.

‘That was the lightbulb second, I simply knew I used to be going to do it.

‘I registered in November and started the assessment process straight away.’

After the year-long means of psychological, bodily and medical assessments to make sure he was in a match state to bear the operation, in March 2017 Ray checked in to the Royal Infirmary of Edinburgh to bear the surgical procedure.

He mentioned: ‘It was a really humbling expertise to have the ability to do one thing like that for another person.

‘I know it’s not for everybody and it’s an enormous determination however for me it simply felt proper.’

On Monday he’ll climb the Outdated Man of Hoy sea stack in Orkney, to lift consciousness of organ donation.

Give a Kidney chairman Chris Jones mentioned: ‘Mr Duffy’s climbing problem is good as a result of it exhibits that donors come again to 100% well being after donating.

‘In Scotland, there are over 400 people who need a transplant. With efforts like Mr Duffy’s, we hope to get extra folks donating kidneys.’